Anonymous peer review for life's big decisions

When you need honest — not comfortable

Your friends love you too much to tell you the truth. Candour connects you with real people who've been exactly where you are — privately, structurally, and without an agenda.

Submit your decision — $19 See how it works
100% anonymous
Responses within 48 hours
Vetted reviewers only
Full refund if we fall short

Three steps to clarity

No account needed. No public posts. Just your situation, in front of people who can genuinely help.

1

Describe your decision

Fill in a structured form — your situation, what you're leaning toward, and what's holding you back. 150 words max. We keep it focused so reviewers can actually help.

2

Matched to the right people

We route your submission to 3–5 vetted reviewers who've lived through something similar. Career change? We find people who've made that leap. Relationship decision? Same.

3

Receive structured feedback

Within 48 hours, you get honest, templated responses — what they notice, what they'd want to know, and what they'd actually do. Private. Clear. Useful.


What a real review looks like

This is an anonymised example. Real submissions get 3–5 responses like these — each from a different reviewer with lived experience in your category.


Not a comments section. Not a Reddit thread. Structured, private, considered feedback from people who've actually been there.

Your submission
Your situation
Leaning toward
Accepting the offer and moving
Reviewer responses
Reviewer A — made a similar move in 2019
The 40% pay cut is real, but so is the opportunity cost of staying. Ask yourself: in 5 years, which regret is heavier? I'd push hard on the equity terms before deciding.
Reviewer B — turned down a similar offer
The thing holding you back — "security" — isn't as secure as it feels. I stayed for safety and regret it. That said, I'd want to know more about the founding team before committing.
Reviewer C — startup founder, exited 2022
Series A is the right stage to join. Not too early, not too late. The 40% cut matters less than the equity percentage. What does 1% look like on their current valuation?

Clarity when it matters most

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I'd been going back and forth for three months. Two days after submitting to Candour, I had more clarity than in all those months combined.

SK
S. Kim
Left corporate law, started a studio
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The responses weren't telling me what I wanted to hear. They were telling me what I needed to hear. There's a difference, and Candour gets that.

MT
M. Torres
Navigating a difficult relocation decision
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My friends kept saying "follow your heart." Candour gave me three structured perspectives from people who'd actually been through it. Night and day.

JA
J. Adeyemi
Made a major career pivot at 38

Not another comments section

Free advice is everywhere. Useful advice is rare. Here's the difference.

Free Facebook groups
Your post is public — the person you're deciding about might see it
Strangers with no relevant experience weigh in equally
47 contradictory opinions with no structure
"Just leave him" and "follow your heart" aren't advice
Your personal situation lives on the internet forever
Candour
Fully anonymous — deleted after 30 days, never shared
Matched to reviewers with lived experience in your category
3–5 structured responses, not 200 opinions
Templated feedback: what they notice, what they'd do, and why
Quality-checked before delivery — no low-effort responses

Less than one therapy hour

A therapist charges $150–300 per hour. A life coach charges more. Candour gives you structured, experienced, private feedback for a fraction of that.

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$19 per review
3 vetted reviewers, 48-hour turnaround
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  • Experience-matched reviewers
  • Fully anonymous submission
  • Quality-checked delivery
  • Full refund if we fall short
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2 submissions per month, cancel anytime
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  • Roll over unused reviews
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No judgment. No public post. Just honest feedback from people who've been there.

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Your submission is anonymous. Responses delivered within 48 hours.
Full refund if fewer than 3 responses arrive on time.